迷人面纱成焦点

"I know youre foolish, frivolous and brainless, but I love you. I know your goals are vulgar and ordinary, but I love you. I know youre second-rate, but I love you." Love has never been about weighing the pros and cons with a cool head, but often about disregarding everything for the sake of emotions. Love is so inexplicable that even with the many flaws of the other person, you still find yourself enamored. "To be hidden in the wild is to be small, to be hidden in the city is to be great." True peace is not dependent on our surroundings, but rather stems from our spirit and inner tranquility. It is a sense of calm and composure that can be maintained even amidst the bustle of city life. "I want to raise my daughter, give her freedom, and let her be independent and self-sufficient. I will love her, nurture her, and not just provide for her so that some man can sleep with her and support her for the rest of her life." For girls, true freedom is not living a worry-free life through the provisions of a man, but having the ability to survive on your own, and even if you cant live in luxury, you have more confidence in yourself. "Dont settle for a compromised marriage." Katie married Walter not out of love, but due to pressure from her mother and the helplessness of reality. This is the root cause of Katies unhappy marriage. In real life, many people face the same dilemma when choosing a spouse, forced to settle for less than ideal marriage partners because of parental pressure, age-related pressure, and social prejudice. Once we choose a compromised marriage, we are more likely to end up with dissatisfaction and complaints, and most couples will become estranged and even split apart due to the monotony and triviality of everyday life. "Only you are the most powerful reliance." The values that Katies mother instilled in her were to rely on a man for comfortable and stable living, but after experiencing betrayal from her lover and the death of her husband, Katie suddenly realized that only she was the most powerful reliance in the world. People cannot remain unchanged, and the heart is even more difficult to fathom, so it is difficult for a single person to rely on others for their entire life. Instead of being anxious about this, its better to have the skills to support oneself and have the confidence to live independently, so that you do not fear any loss. After experiencing hardships, Katie finally understood: women cannot rely on men to live in this world, they should support themselves through work and become independent people. She didnt seek greatness, only honesty; she didnt seek courage, only fearlessness. Only through this can life lead to a path of peace. She finally lifted the veil of life and saw the cold reality beneath.