学习致命爱人，掌握完美爱情

To check if you have the following issues, look at them from a negative perspective:

1. Controlling tendencies 2. Manipulation 3. Imposing demands on others 4. Suppressing others 5. Denying others

For healthy love, practice the following:

1. Grant freedom to others 2. Give recognition to others 3. Show respect to others

Build upon these foundations by:

1. Seeking like-minded individuals 2. Finding those who share the same values 3. Connecting with emotionally stable people

To improve yourself, consider the following:

1. Allow time to reflect before reacting 2. Practice meditation to increase focus 3. Develop multiple perspectives to consider situations from different angles.