《始于极限》思考极限，开拓未来

On May 1st, 2023, I came across chapter 6 about abilities and found resonance in Suzuki Ryokos letter regarding "letting go of the obsession with being loved and accumulating experiences of love." Before that, there was a line in a song by Lin Yilian that always felt off to me, "A woman without love is so pitiful, even if someone cries listening to my song." I couldnt understand why not being loved was so pitiful, let alone "so pitiful", and thought to myself that I would rather have someone crying listening to my song. However, before my previous relationship ended, I also had such thoughts, thinking that having a boyfriend and being in a romantic relationship was a way to compensate for something I lacked or that didnt go as planned. Of course, now that I have gone through a breakup, those thoughts are gone, and I hope that I will never have them again. "Although the finish line is so far away, the footsteps towards it are becoming more and more unified," which inspired Suzuki Ryoko, and I also hope to get closer to that finish line.

On March 2023, Suzukis letter was difficult to understand, and as Ueno said, her response was not straightforward. However, Uenos reply was well-written and meaningful, and after reading chapter 4 about marriage, I understood the formation mechanism of workplace sexual harassment and what "masculine energy" is. However, some of the views about love, sex, and marriage, I have yet to figure out and fully embrace at the age of 25. I wonder what my thoughts will be when I turn 30.