《周国平散文自选集》记忆·人生

Is it true that once we hit 40, we start to contemplate the meaning of life? We measure our abilities with our careers, compare our success with our children, and evaluate our happiness with our families. Its like weve been living our lives for others. So, what should a 40-year-old woman be like? As the late philosopher, Ji Xianlin, once said, imperfection is what makes life worth living. This sentiment rings true for everyone, from accomplished writers like Lu Xun to ordinary people like you and me. Life is full of ups and downs, but its the little things that make it worthwhile. We should learn to be patient and understanding with one another. Like the writer Zhang Xiaowen, who believed that life is lovely, we should appreciate the gift of life and all its complexities. Growing up can be tough, as the adolescent rebellion sets in, but even then, our children retain their charm. For some people, the journey of life carries a heavy burden, but it is a gift that is only bestowed upon those who are willing to embrace it. To become a true manifestation of oneself, we must learn to slow down and engage in activities that reap greater self-awareness and inner strength, like reading, sipping tea, and listening to music. We must be responsible for our own lives. The philosopher Bi Shumin once said that life is a feast of love, and love is something that evolves with age. As we get older, our love becomes a duty, and it extends beyond the boundaries of our family. We understand that life is about both coming together and letting go. The writer Lin Wen-yue reminisced about childhood and the love she shared with her mother, who, in her later years, had become more patient and accommodating. Time waits for no one, and we must learn to embrace both the joys and sorrows of life. As the year 2023 passes its halfway mark, I, at 40, have lived through many different facets of life. What about you?