盐镇女性隐秘

After reading the entire book, I noticed that the age of the characters seemed to get younger, suggesting that the fate of a generation of women was gradually being mastered, but in the end, with Huang Xinyi, there seemed to be a kind of reincarnation and echo with Chen Niangniangs pimp business at the beginning.

I really like the afterword, which says that the details of their lives almost cover the entire history of the town for decades. The stories of women are not just about women themselves, but also a "rural elegy."

Most people think they understand modern women, but in this era, many women are still abandoned by mainstream culture and theory. They are living individuals - women, daughters, mothers, workers, and us.

Key word 1: Strangers

Looking at Chen Bingzhis tragic marriage, I cant even believe this is the kind of experience that women alive today should have.

Key word 2: Vitality

Every woman has an extremely strong vitality and toughness. They cannot change their background or the entire social and female environment, but they have made contributions in a limited time period, whether it is to their families or careers. Moreover, their initial strength is only to protect themselves. They should not become hideous or gender-blurring just because they are powerful, smart, and capable. They are independent individuals with vitality.

Key word 3: Love

Whether it is same-sex or heterosexual, bad love can turn each other into the worst versions of themselves.

These girls all lacked understanding of love. Their upbringing prevented them from knowing how men and women interact, what it means to be interested in someone, what family and love are. Maybe as long as there are no fights or domestic violence, its enough, but they dont know whats beyond that.

Key word 4: Confidence

From Qing Mei and onwards, the women in the book become younger and more protective of themselves. Although they have a low starting point, they improve their own and their descendants living conditions through their own intelligence, hard work, and learning, and even begin to change the previous generation of women. The premise of independence may be a dual independence of money and spirit.

Seeing Xiues suspicion actually made me feel that the biggest enemy of women in the town was fear. Afraid of being cheated, afraid of divorce, afraid of gossiping, they resist the opportunity to accept the outside world, even if they experience domestic violence, they will not choose to divorce. In fact, what if they fail? They may have never had access to education on setbacks and love, leaving only rural, unsuitable beliefs in the current situation.